ISBN 978-1-923443-92-1
PAPERBACK
ISBN 978-1-923589-17-9
EBOOK
Rogue, Black Sheep or Ratbag
A memoir of survival, truth, and the courage to confront family cruelty
Every family has its darkness, this one was never hidden.
In this courageous and unflinching memoir, the author recounts a lifetime shaped by the volatile presence of her sister, Eva—a woman whose behaviour pushed the boundaries of psychological abuse. With traits that elude simple definition—psychopathic manipulation, narcissism, obsessive control—Eva’s actions left deep scars on those around her, particularly their mother.
Through writing, the author finds clarity, acceptance, and the ability to finally sleep at night.
This is her story—a deeply personal account of survival, truth-telling, and the power of speaking out.
From The Author
AS I WROTE IN my preface, expressing all these incidents on paper has relieved me emotionally. When I have told others that I am writing my memoir and given them a precis of its contents, mostly they have said that they had a black sheep in the family too. It seems to be that most families suffer a rogue in silence. But I felt I had to get it off my chest.
My brothers have been an enormous support to me all through my life and now when I have discussed certain incidents with them. I appreciate their help and thank them for their continued support.
I would also like to thank Sarah for encouraging me to share my story.
I repeat that incidents are not in chronological sequence but as they came into my mind and I felt I had to deal with them. It’s such a relief to not carry the trauma any longer.
Perhaps you would like to write your memoir and clear your emotional baggage. It has helped me so much. And maybe you can send me your story and I may be able to help you.
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Lexie Waters
2025